Family Portrait

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We felt extremely blessed that so many members of our family were able to come and be with us around the time of Aaronashe’s birth to celebrate his arrival. We wanted to capture the memories and have a visual reminder of this family celebration!

When Yara was born, we had a photo shoot to document the start of the third generation of our families. She was the first grandchild for our parents, and we wanted to be sure to document the event, especially because we do not all live in the same country. We decided to do the same for Aaro. My parents happened to be staying at a beautiful house around the corner from us, Coote’s Cottage, and it turned out to be the perfect setting for the shoot! It was really fun and relaxed, and our photographer, Susan, was so good with the kids. Yara had not had her usual sleep that day, so towards the end she was no longer compliant (to say the least), but Susan managed to take some gorgeous pictures nonetheless! Here are our favourites:

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Our ‘Mountain of Strength’

Baby Shower Number 1

My first baby shower

Baby Shower Number 2

My second baby shower

What a glorious day it was when our second child, was born! I had a rollercoaster pregnancy, which I’m sure most pregnant mothers can relate to, and to add to the chaos, his expected birth date was anywhere from the 27th of December to the 8th of January.

Since it was my second pregnancy, the Braxton Hicks contractions (practice contractions) were much stronger, and as a result I had a few false alarms in the weeks before the actual birth.

In some ways it was easier to prepare for this birth since it was the second time around and I knew what to plan for and delegate. I had all the right things for my hospital stay (with Yara we took a whole lot of unnecessary things, e.g a movie- hahaha), I made shopping lists, cooked and froze many meals for us. (A big thanks to Jess for the tip – it was a life saver). But in some ways it was more difficult this time, especially because we have a toddler in tow. We wanted to make sure Yara would adjust well; talking a 2 year old through this big ‘life event’, and all the while just praying that she would love her brother, was no easy task. We also had to organize what would happen with her and who she could stay with during the actual birth, whenever that would be.

The real countdown began when I aimed to finish work on the 14th of December, but ended up working until the 21st. All my work was handed over to others for my maternity leave. I had made spreadsheets of tasks that had to be done and put all the necessary documents and files on CDs for each person. Everything was finally in order. I thought, “Woo hoo, I made it and the baby hasn’t come!” What a relief!

Once I was off from work, I spent my time resting and getting the final things together for the baby’s arrival. Writing this now, after giving birth, I’m laughing at myself…I was seriously nesting… nevermind the fact that our nanny and I had ‘deep cleaned’ the flat, there were always things that could be done; everything had to be meticulously cleaned and repacked. So there I was, a few days before the birth, breathlessly squatting while re-potting plants, down on my hands and knees, cleaning and making sure even the balcony was spotless. I suppose it was all good exercise to bring on the labour! As I write this now, I think how unnecessary it was, but when you are in that head space it just has to be done, doesn’t it? 🙂

Raldo’s parents told us they would be coming to Cape Town on the  2nd of January because they felt that the baby was coming any day after New Year’s. When I heard this, I thought, “Okay, I really hope so…” 🙂

From my side of the family (the Sibandas), my mother arrived in Cape Town from Zimbabwe on the 29th of December, with enough time before the birth to get re-acquainted with Yara and to help us with some last-minute preparations. My brother came on the 2nd of January, which turned out to be just in time for the birth. In my estimation this little guy was taking forever, since my brother would only be visiting until the 5th, and I wanted him to be able to see the baby. My father was scheduled to arrive on the 3rd. We made plans to do something fun as a family every morning until the birth, but we only made one morning, the 3rd!

So for our first outing with the Sibanda family, we met at Josephine’s Mill in Newlands for a wonderful, long and loud breakfast. I felt very energetic and as strong as ever! I would never have thought that in less than 7 hours we would all be meeting the new member of our family. We left the Mill with my mum to go to the weekly appointment with our midwife at 1 pm.

My mum stayed in the car with Yara while Raldo and I went in. By this time I was so fed up. I was also a little worried that the birth process would begin in the middle of the night; and particularly that I would not make it to the hospital in time, since Yara’s birth went so quickly. My midwife agreed that if we could in any way avoid the possibility of giving birth in the car, we should! When she had finished examining me, she said my cervix was fully effaced and I was 4cm dilated with no contractions! She asked if she could sweep my membranes, which would bring on labour contractions. Sure enough, I felt them start as we were walking back to the car. We agreed to meet her at the hospital at 4 pm.

We went home and I packed up the last of my things in a wonderfully leisurely fashion, much like I did with Yara’s birth. Both of our kids were born on a Thursday after a regular visit to the midwife! With Yara, I didn’t get my membranes swept, as I had already gone into labour and was halfway to the birth when I went for my appointment!

I had very special quality time with Yara in the bath, which I took to ease the slight discomfort I had and to relax. I explained to her for the umpteenth time what was going to happen now, and that she was going to stay with her Gogomum (my mum). By now I was having contractions about every 5 minutes, but they were not too painful, since my waters were still intact. We kissed everyone goodbye and headed for the hospital at about 3:40 pm.

on our way to the hospital

Just before we left for the hospital

When we arrived at the hospital, the midwife said that I was already 8 centimetres dilated, and that if I wanted, she could break my waters and the baby would be born within an hour. Of course I opted to wait  – who wants more chaos in life? I just needed to pace myself, and of course this time I actually knew how hectic the next phase of labour would be, so I was really in no rush. I asked Glynnis, my midwife, if I could labour the toughest part in water this time as I thought it might ease the intensity of the active phase (sitting in the bath before I went to the hospital had been so relaxing!). She asked if I would consider a full water birth, because by the time she ran the “huge” hospital bath and had broken my waters, it would not be long before the baby would be out anyway. With all the emotional upheaval of this pregnancy I had not made a birth plan, so this offer did not  mess with the non-existent plan. She assured us that it would be safe, and that the key thing was that I keep the baby underwater until she brought him up. Raldo and I both thought, “Why not?” So the water was run and my waters were broken, and the fun (not!) began within minutes.

Just before my waters were broken 1hr to go!

Just before my waters were broken, sitting on the birthing ball in front of the big bath

You always read about how amazing water births are, but you reckon it’s for “those” people. I was amazed at how relaxing it was; I didn’t even need to take any Entonox (‘gas and air’) this time round. The euphoria in between contractions from being in water was so pain relieving and relaxing that I felt I could have slept in those moments, if they were not so close together! As tough as birth is, this was amazing! Raldo was a bit disappointed, of course, since he had nothing much to do this time except to hold my hand, as I was coping well with the pain. It was so peaceful, and just like when Yara was born, we strongly sensed the peace and joy of the Lord in the room.

As the baby was crowning, Glynnis felt that the umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck. She said that she would try to untangle it, but if she couldn’t then Raldo would have to very quickly lift me out of the bath and onto the bed, as this was a better position to deal with this complication. Thank you Lord for such a big, strong husband! Luckily it all happened so fast that I had no time to panic; within no time she had untangled the cord. He was born in water and he was beautiful, healthy, and strong – thank you, Lord!

I had some postnatal bleeding and I had to be hooked up to a drip for a while. I continued to feel weak for a few days after the birth, but all in all everything went smoothly.

He has arrived!

As soon as he was delivered he was placed on my chest, what an unforgettable moment!

Aaronashe, born at 6:30pm, 03.01.13, 3.2kg, 59cm

Aaronashe, born on the 03.01.13 at 6:30pm, 3.2kg & 50cm

We named him Aaronashe Raldo Krüger. “Aaro”(also what we call him),  pronounced ‘arrow’ means “Mountain of Strength,” which is the picture God gave me before he was conceived, and “Nashe” means “with God,” which is the assurance we kept getting throughout the pregnancy.

That night, the whole family came over to see him in the hospital, including Yara. She was so sweet when she saw him, and I’m sure she was amazed that he had finally come out. It was so wonderful to see my father, who had been flying to Cape Town during the labour. He arrived just in time and came straight from the airport to the hospital to see Aaronashe that evening.

Yara meets her baby brother with Veronique (my sister-in-law) and Tawanda (my brother)

Yara meets her baby brother with Veronique (my sister-in-law) and Tawanda (my brother)

Ouma and Oupa meet him for the first time

Ouma and Oupa meet him for the first time

My siblings saw him first with their significant others

My siblings with their significant others

Gogomum and Khulu were over joyed

Gogomum and Khulu were over joyed

We went home on Saturday at noon after a lovely stay at Vincent Pallotti hospital. Our families were so helpful in the next few weeks; feeding us and helping around the house. It was a very special time of getting to know our new son and having our families there to celebrate with us.

A bigger Krüger 'Kru' at home

A bigger Krüger ‘Kru’ at home

Back with preggy belly memories

Krugers-3 Hello all! I have been on maternity leave, and because of that I took a break from blogging for a while. However, now that I’m back I would love to give you some updates in the next few posts to bring you up to speed with what has been happening in our lives.

While I was pregnant with our precious boy we were fortunate enough to have a photo shoot to document the memories. The photographer is my cousin, Tariro. She is incredibly talented and she has her own business, ‘Captured by WASHE‘. She was studying at Vega School at the time, and used us as subjects for one of her modules. What a win for all of us, as we were able to get great memories of the pregnancy! Yara had such a great time getting dressed in the different outfits, and she loved the whole experience; the studio, balloons, lights, and as you can see, the camera! These are a few of our favourites from the shoot:

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Warm Fun with our Spring princess!

As a family with a toddler, we try and keep to a workable schedule. Kids, being kids learn fast! I just had to share Yara’s interpretation of our weekly routine: Monday she rests & has fun with Mummy; Tuesday we go to Mom’s and Tots, Wednesday Ntsiki (her nanny) comes, Thursday Ouma comes; Friday Ntsiki comes again; Saturday is rugby and Sunday we go to children’s church! It’s just that simple!

Snack time for the Tots as the Mom’s have a chat and a cup of tea!

Yara absolutely loves Mom’s and Tots and we could sense her little heart grow sad with the thought of a short spring break. Her wonderful teacher, Ridza, made up for it however when she got all the toddlers to make festive spring crowns on their last day! While my little Spring Princess munched on snacks with the other little ones, us mom’s had a chat and a much needed cup of tea!

Applying Yara’s learning of seasons to family fun, we decided, on the first sunny Saturday in Spring to go to the beach. We went to feel the sand and water between our toes and say hello to the prospect of warmer weather!

Our kid(s) and I!

Yara and her Daddy

Something is cooking in the Krüger oven…

We are so excited to share that we are expecting the arrival of our second child early next year – and it’s a boy! Please pray with us for a healthy pregnancy, baby and birth. Yara is obviously thrilled and seems to understand what is happening; she asks to see my tummy daily, praying for the baby and giving him a hug and a kiss. She even shows him things!

Baby Krüger at 20 weeks

Our sweet sister turns 21!

We had fun celebrating Veronique’s (Raldo’s sister) 21st over the Month of August! She had a number of celebrations and Yara had many opportunities to sing ‘happy birthday’ for her Tannie!!! I’ve only posted pictures of the celebrations we attended!

Veronique’s 21st at ‘Addis in Cape Town’, an Ethiopian restaurant

Eating the Ethiopian way

Veronique had just returned from a mission trip to Ethiopia over the mid-year university holiday, so it was very fitting to have her main celebration at an Ethiopian Restaurant. Her friends and family got a chance to share in some of her experience. We are so proud of her!

Sarel, Soraja, Yara & Raldo at the aquarium

Raldo’s older sister, Soraja, and her husband, Sarel, also came down from Pretoria for the weekend and we had a great time catching up with them.

We rounded off the time with a family dinner together to celebrate Veronique’s life & future!

A special family memory around the dinner table

Happy 2nd birthday, Yara!

We celebrated Yara’s second birthday! It feels like yesterday when we got to hold her in our arms for the first time! To celebrate her life, we threw an animal party (she is mad about animals and music) on her birthday, the 24th of June. Here are some photos…

We had pizza at Col’Cacchio, Cavendish with some family, a few of her friends and their siblings and parents. The kids sat on one end of the table; drawing and playing with animal stickers, producing some wonderful party art in the process. It was low-key but really fun.

My mum was visiting from Zimbabwe and my brother was in town from Joburg. It was so special to have them there!

By the end of the 2 hour party all the kids were running around the table! Lesson learnt: bad time to decide to take posed family photos, she is only two and she wanted to play!